Calculated trust

Trust is a ‘Brahmastra’ for a person for a good relationship and works. It makes people closer with others by heart. A person can do much better work and feel good if he gets trust from others. He can improve his work also. Trust also gives mental stability to both persons. They become calm and relax through trust in each other. It also enhances the capabilities of other persons also and give chance to others to prove himself better. Therefore trust is like worship.

But in many case trust may be broken. There may be different reasons. Some of these are fear, jealousy, selfishness, devotion from others. Habit and behavior, in enjoyment, lack of seriousness, lack of importance, anger, situation of trouble etc. Therefore reason may be different for different people to break trust. But the result is that one had broken the trust of others. One can’t control breakage of trust. But he can only do that he may be ready for that kind of situation.

Therefore the first one should do calculated trust on others, it may be his family members, relatives, friends, neighbors, and others. He should keep in his mind how can they break his trust and make a strategy to cover it up. So that damage may be lower. If your action plan is ready then you can face any kind of problem. Therefore in this way you can reduce damage in his life. Readiness doesn’t mean a lack of trust.

One should give attention that how a person around him may cheat him and why. This is the calculation of trust. Trust on others should be increase as the different situation and up with a happy ending. If a person cheats once he can cheat once again. Like this if a person had cheated. Another person, he may cheat you in the future.

Therefore if you want to live smartly then trust with calculation. It doesn’t mean a lack of trust. It means how much a person should be capable to get trust. Trust breaking from others is a continuous procedure in life but he can do only ready for that.