How to face bad time

Every person life never remains stable. Time always goes up and down and accordingly conditions of a person change day by day. But sometimes a big time slot comes with bad conditions. In that time the person gets surrounded by problems and negative news only. Besides that these conditions remain continuous for a long period. It may last for one week to one year. This kind of time comes in each person’s life. But some persons cannot handle it. So they can become mentally ill or sometimes they commit suicide too.

Yes, this is very difficult to pass this time. But it is not impossible. If a person suffers from problems then he feels defeated and depressed. It means the bad time is hunting and riding on that person. He has lost his courage to face that. Therefore his bad conditions become fireer and fireer. And so his negativity may increase rapidly. Maximum of persons live in this way in bad times. But this is not the right way.

But there is another way to live in these conditions. That is the way of positivity. One should face the problems first with boldness. And then he has to do very hard work to remove them with positive thoughts. If he continuously works on his problems and doesn’t fear from them then his bad conditions will change soon. Therefore, first of all, a person should make himself bold and positive. As condition starts becoming worse, he should increase his hard work to fight with the problem. If he works continuously like that only without sitting and relaxing, he will change his conditions as soon as possible.

So in bad time, a person should become braver than in normal condition. And he should also become more positive and hard working. These three qualities will help to remove bad conditions. And finally, they convert it into good condition. Most important thing is that one should stop bad conditions and problems to ride on him.

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Love yourself and your world

A man’s life becomes an untargeted race which endpoint is not seen. He always runs in his life without understanding his life and his environment world around him. It happens in the life of each person. Also, it happens without knowing himself and the world around him. Therefore he himself and world become a burden on his shoulder. And at last, he lives with fear, fatigue, tension and great pressure. By this, he enjoys less in his life.

This whole happens, because one person loves himself and his world very less. Unfortunately, each person gives less time to himself and his environment. Therefore he understands less what he really needs and how beautiful is the world around him. His attention normally goes in negative parts of his life and negative things in the world. That’s why a person doesn’t understand his world fully. He disappoints with the challenges of his life, but he can’t understand his capabilities and opportunities of his life. He did not make himself to fight the problems, but he frightened from upcoming problems. These all are the signs that tell us that we did not love ourselves and our world.

What is love? What is its man?
Love is a feeling by which he understands, care, attach, and take responsibility to others without complain and desire. It is a sense by which people highlight only positive parts and suppress negative parts of others. It also converts negatives to the positives. If a person loves himself he should understand, care, attach, take responsibility and motivate himself to go in a positive direction. Like this to love his world he has to understand, care, attach, take responsibility and motivate positivity of the world.

Therefore if a person loves himself and his world, he should do the above works. But these tasks are not so easy. But if a person understands, look positive parts and act accordingly, it means he loves himself and his world.
Most of the popular thinkers like dale Carnegie, shiv Khera etc. write these views in many sequences. They always right what to do, while they should write why they should do. Therefore the basic reason for a good task is to love yourself and your world.

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Unfavorable condition is a reality

In every person’s life, everything does not happen according to their choice. If he is a king of the country, in that case also, it is never possible. So it is a universal truth that happenings in life can never be according to his choice of that person. Therefore unfavorable condition in human life is beyond a person’s desire. They may occur when one cannot expect.

Therefore if the unfavorable condition is at par limit of human life, what should be the strategy to tackle it. It should be tackled with care because of its impact inverse to human life.
The first step to deal with the unfavorable condition is that accepts it and wait for it. It means one should ready always towards the upcoming unfavorable condition and when it comes, try to deal with it. Acceptance is the most powerful tool which dilutes the problems.

The second step is to fight with the problem. Give your energy to fight with the condition without taking much tension and pressure. And fight until the condition is changed. Brave people never got defeated. Deal your condition with intelligence.

Third step – After the solution of the unfavorable condition is most wonderful i.e. forget that problem and relax your mind. Forgetting is also necessary because past experiences always create an unnecessary burden on one’s mind. They can make tension and pressure in the present and future.
In this way, one can fight with undesired conditions. In most of the cases, acceptance is the main problem. Therefore you accept properly the problem from you discard easily also.

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Negativity versus hopes

Everybody knows that negativity weakens a man. It creates depression, irritation, and sadness in a human being. These things can break the mental power of that person. He lives with sadness, great depression, and unhappiness but some person who have so much negativity still live, how they can live with so unhappiness in their life. It is wonderful, from where to get power to live their life?
There is an unseen power which can stand negative persons in their life. This is the power of hope. A negative person who has hope in their life fight with the problems and live long. Hope is a kind of positivity which can balance negativity. A person with hope creates happiness through hope. Hope forces a life to live and stops to break down. This creates enormous power in a human being. It never let him down. The hope of changing time & condition fight with situations.

It is very difficult to live a person when he is very unhappy. But his difficulty can be removed through only hope. Hope is created by time. Time always changes.
Therefore hope is generated through changing patterns of time good time and bad time patterns enforce hope in a human being.
Hope creates confidence in a person. He can increase is mental power and also decrease his negativity. It can increase competitive strength also. Because of that people get energy and skill to fight the problems. Therefore home makes a person more mentally strong.

Therefore hope is most important in human life to live. If it ends in a person, one can commit suicide. So if a person is found to be depressed, he should be enforced with hope. In this way, he can stand again.
So, if you find a person with negativity, you should try to give him love, importance, and hope.

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Happiness, calm & satisfaction should come first

Every person in human society wants happiness, calmness, and satisfaction in his life. He runs to achieve that. But all these many important things can be achieved by running?
It can not be possible through running towards them. But in reality these all attributes always remains in a human body & mind. But no one wants to find in herself but want to search outside. Finding these qualities in himself is a very difficult task, but it is possible up to 90% in human life.

First one should calm himself, towards past, present and future incidents. Remember always positive incidents and learn from bad incidents. Besides this, one should understand that no one can get and do good conditions, but he has to face a bad condition also. Which happens in all persons life. But ones heart become up & down, right & left. Therefore understanding the condition of himself one can get his condition calm up to 70 to 90%. Yes, 100% calmness is never possible because he is a man only.

The second thing which one should appreciate himself. By understanding his condition and what he had done in the past. If one ignores blaming himself one can reach in satisfaction condition up to 70 to 90%. Because he has done good and bad according to his condition. But now he is trying to do only better work for himself, towards his family and towards his society. That’s how he can reach in satisfying condition.

Happiness in a man comes because of positivity and by enjoying all his task in his life cycle on the path. If one faces all the problem with a positive attitude and enjoys to do the solution of his problems he becomes happy. In bad condition, he enjoys to resolve the problem and in good condition, he enjoys the moment. He makes himself ready to fight in all condition. He also enjoys every moment and the task he can become happy. Therefore happiness is in one’s himself not outside.

These all three attributes will remain stable through doing & thinking better for himself, family and society. One should improve his thought process better & better in a positive direction. So these all qualities are in yourself, you have to wake up this quality through positivity and working on yourself by making yourself a better and better man. Besides this leaving bad luggage behind you.

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Enjoy Heaven

According to ancient mythology or religious mythology, a person may go in heaven after death if he does good works for society. There is no evidence that says it actually happens. Modern science doesn’t say anything about what happened after death yet. So it is nonsense to talk about heaven after death.
But when life is studied in detail or deeply it is found that people can live on earth like heaven or part of heaven. This article tells what is the method to live on earth with experience of heaven. It means a highly good life. It is not very easy. It requires a high level of understanding and acts this is not easy for a common person but also it is not impossible to live a heavenly life.
These are the steps that are required to live a satisfying life.
1. Life understanding – the first step is to understand life. It means one should understand that life will have continuous phases of sadness and happiness. Some time sadness occurs and some time happiness occurs. They will continuously change like day and night in life. If a person accepts sadness and happiness with pleasure them he understands life. Those who have life understanding waits for the next trouble and prepares himself for these troubles. And faces these troubles with great pleasure knowing that after some time these will be automatically passed. After some days of calm condition near future may bring problems in life. Happiness and sadness cycle continue shows. Someone who deeply understands this can go to the next step.
2. Enjoy life fights – Life is the name of a continuous fight. Normally people face problems with no interest and feel a burden on then. But life-fighting is very much enjoyable. One can get good sleep if he works hard on the day. It means enjoy day hard work and night sleep both.
3. Remove fear – People live with fear. That is the big enemy of our happiness. We fear from trouble, unknowns, and anything. Yes, it is true that we cannot remove fear 100% from our heart but yet it can be reduced to 90 to 95%. As you become fearless you can enjoy life but without that, it is very difficult.
4. Back yourself – One should understand their strengths, thoughts, and desires. It means to understand yourself and live according to that. Disappointment occurs because one looks at other’s life and act accordingly. But for you, inspiration should come from yourself only. Never live according to other’s advice.
5. Goals improve society – Yes you should back yourself but your goals or targets of life should back society. It means you should live your life for your society. It is important because your life should have a mean. If you go and justify your life to society. It gives you inner happiness and satisfaction which cannot come from any physical means. Your goals should always have some meaning for you and they make life-fighting very easy.
6. Right & continuous path – Shortcuts are the main reason to go down. If one goes steady and long path he will never fall down. Enjoy this journey in your whole life. Because you will find that it is very beautiful.
7. Become a man of goodness – Goodness is the only way that can give you inner pleasure. If your works always help others and never harm others in any case, there is no reason so that you can get sorrow or sadness. It makes you the person for others but in a real scenario, it makes your life better. Like for example if you help a blind person, you get a feel of happiness.
8. See beautiful – This world is very beautiful, but it depends on man’s thinking that how he sees, if you can see everything of life beautifulness. Your life becomes beautiful it means we should encourage things and conditions in a positive manner only. It will give a positive response to us.
9. Never take, only giving – People of this world mainly unhappy because they want something from others and never want to give. But when you have no desires from others and only give to others, it will make your life pleasant.
10. Race from yourself, not others – Competition from others makes a person sad. But you should complete with yourself. An average person never uses more than 5 to 8% of his strength in his whole life. If he competes himself up to 30%, he can become a great icon. It means every person have knowing his talent but he never uses. He lives by seeing others but never himself.
11. Enjoy struggle – The struggle time of life is the most beautiful time of life. But the average person feels guilty and fear this time. This makes their life terrible. But when you invite struggle you can face off better.
12. Repair yourself – There will be some times when you get weakened. You should stand by yourself with a positive attitude. Forget all negative things remember all positive things and repair and make you positive. It cannot be done by others; it can be done by you only.
13. Enjoy past, present & future – Enjoy positive things from your past. Enjoy present struggle and else enjoy with upcoming dreaming future. This makes your whole life enjoyable.
So these are the ingredients for a better life. The main motto is that you should never live with fear, but live with pleasure and good & brave heart. Your life will be worthy on earth.

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Believe in yourself

If one looks back in its life he always sees that he had made mistakes. Life was full of mistakes and blunders. But why it happens most of the time. Besides, that one is living a good life but still they are not happy and not getting satisfaction.

Management books focus on SWOT analysis. It means you should know always your strengths, weakness, opportunities, and threats. And it tells how you & your organization should work to grow. Practically it helps most of the people.

This analysis may make you practical or may take to the door of success. But it never gives you full happiness and satisfaction. Here I say, you should back your strength. It means you should live your life with your strengths, thoughts, and desires (STD). If you live with STD you will be always happy. You should always remember that impractical things may become practical one day. WOT comes after in the journey of life. But those analyses are negative. Weakness, opportunities & threats create fear which make blockage for your life journey.
Here I want to say one thing only; in your life, you are the most important one. Your desire, thoughts, and strengths should be the architect of your life. You may call this whole thing as “Believe in yourself.”

We always believe others but not ourselves. Listen to your heart first then others. Others may be wrong for you but your heart will always be right for you. Anyone else can’t decide what you should do. It should be your decision only. One should always know that opportunities may be created and weaknesses and threats may be reduced.

Like for example ‘The Ramanujan’ the great mathematician has STD in math. He liked math so much that he did not read other subjects. In schooling, he got 100 % marks in math but in other subjects, he failed. So he could not get admission in college and could not complete schooling. But one day because of his STD towards math he becomes a great mathematician. Like this bill gates also could not complete college. But he becomes not only the owner of the biggest IT Company and also the world’s richest person. Like this Albert Einstein also had journeyed from a clerk to a great scientist. The world is full of those kinds of stories. They all get success in extreme conditions because they work in their passion not according to other’s beliefs.

One more thing is important that you should completely believe in yourself not partially. It means for your success don’t try shortcuts or wrong path for your desired goal. Because it weakens your capabilities. Like for example, you desire to make money. This you can achieve by dishonesty. But the result will happen that dishonesty reduces your money-making power. Because you did not believe in yourself.
So at last if you live according to your passion, desire, thought, and strength. One day you not only get success but also happiness And you get true deep satisfaction. Is there will be a struggle? Yes. you will face a great amount of struggle. But when you believe in yourself, There you will be feeling like flowers on you.

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Success/ Happiness/ Satisfaction @ mental strength

Every person has almost equal potential. But in their life journey, they live with non-equality. Some person get success and some get unsuccessful in their life span. Some are happier in same condition but some live with or without satisfaction.

Different people live differently because of their different mental strength and they also channelize their mental strength in different conditions.
Some people who have high mental strength towards their target. They get success one day. But who don’t have very high mental strength, towards their works or target, they always face problem in terms of success. High mental strength person normally stick on their plans and targets, and convert it into performance. They also face problem but they fight to the problem until they don’t reach on their target. While who has less mental strength towards works, fails to do fight with problems.

So if success is your priority than make your mental strength high towards your works and goals. Higher mental strength towards your goals give chances of getting success is higher.
But some people priority is happiness. They channelize their mental strength towards positivity of life. They accept whole life, and its pros and cons with understanding. They face problem by understand, that one day it will end. They enjoy their life in any condition. This can be possible because of only high mental strength towards positivity. Their positive mental strength gives chances of happiness much higher.

Some persons want to live a satisfied life. Yes 100% satisfaction cannot be achieved. But one can increase his satisfaction ratio by understanding circumstances thorough mental strength. Realisation of situation and his performance is the reason of satisfaction.

Ratio of these three things depends on mental strength towards each direction. Choice is different for different persons. But result is same for success, happiness and satisfaction.
So if one wants to get success or happiness or satisfaction he should first make his mental strength towards targets, positivity and understanding of circumstances simultaneously. Higher the mental strength higher the chances of getting their goals in desired ways. So first task for every person is to increase their mental strength, and channelize them it, into desired directions.

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