For children’s parent’s require money or ambition & desire
A large section in Indian society mainly upper middle class and upper class is injured with money making. They are making and saving in the form of assets. Their desire to earn money is continuously increasing and they are becoming greedy. In these some are more ahead they spend less and save more.
The question arises why they all need so much money. Normally answer is for their children’s. But will this money help children or make them weak? Yes, it will help with their children’s education. Yes, it is our responsibility to give a good education and a good childhood life. So money requires for children’s upbringing. Parents should support their children’s in the more targ terms up to their education and marriage. Marriage is also the responsibility of parents.
But after marriage, if big money is paid to the children then we are making them weak and poor. Because this money will eventually make them lazy and careless. They also forget the value of money which you have earned with hard work and perseverance. Because it is easy money for them. They always spend money without realizing the value of money and they will also forget the future needs of their life. So many of them in old age become poor and live a miserable life.
But the major effect is that you are stopping your child from growing. You are weakening their competitive strength. They will fail to deliver their ability. So it will spoil their future professional life. Their internal strength is also under passing marks. By giving more money you are not helping your child instead you are spoiling their future.
What really you should give to your child for their future? The answer is the thought “desire to do something big with the right path in their interest area”. If you generate this feeling in your child, it will create a good competitive strength. And they will be successful in their fields (in which they may have an interest). They will fight with extreme condition and clear it for forever.
In this whole process never forget the interest of the child. Your interest should not be forced on a child.
But hence it is also clear that these should be desire in the child, not the pressure. Because you should pressurize them because it may break your child’s internal strength. So there is a very thin line between desire and pressure which you should not cross. One should enjoy one’s goal.
One thing is also required in big thought is the right path and right target. It means the wrong path or shortcuts will never give a satisfying life to your child because the wrong path will always give inner insecurity. So he/she may never be happy in real terms.
Your child may get success on a major or minor scale. But he/she will never be unsuccessful. I will light for his goals in his life. In this way, he will live a good life. So please acquire monetary assets as per you and your child’s requirement.