Happiness, calm & satisfaction should come first
Every person in human society wants happiness, calmness, and satisfaction in his life. He runs to achieve that. But all these many important things can be achieved by running?
It can not be possible through running towards them. But in reality these all attributes always remains in a human body & mind. But no one wants to find in herself but want to search outside. Finding these qualities in himself is a very difficult task, but it is possible up to 90% in human life.
First one should calm himself, towards past, present and future incidents. Remember always positive incidents and learn from bad incidents. Besides this, one should understand that no one can get and do good conditions, but he has to face a bad condition also. Which happens in all persons life. But ones heart become up & down, right & left. Therefore understanding the condition of himself one can get his condition calm up to 70 to 90%. Yes, 100% calmness is never possible because he is a man only.
The second thing which one should appreciate himself. By understanding his condition and what he had done in the past. If one ignores blaming himself one can reach in satisfaction condition up to 70 to 90%. Because he has done good and bad according to his condition. But now he is trying to do only better work for himself, towards his family and towards his society. That’s how he can reach in satisfying condition.
Happiness in a man comes because of positivity and by enjoying all his task in his life cycle on the path. If one faces all the problem with a positive attitude and enjoys to do the solution of his problems he becomes happy. In bad condition, he enjoys to resolve the problem and in good condition, he enjoys the moment. He makes himself ready to fight in all condition. He also enjoys every moment and the task he can become happy. Therefore happiness is in one’s himself not outside.
These all three attributes will remain stable through doing & thinking better for himself, family and society. One should improve his thought process better & better in a positive direction. So these all qualities are in yourself, you have to wake up this quality through positivity and working on yourself by making yourself a better and better man. Besides this leaving bad luggage behind you.