Own yourself
Each person lives with expectations. If these expectations are high in volume and persons, life becomes miserable. Because of these expectations makes him more careless for him, for his family and for his society. One tries to leave her work and responsibilities to other person and don’t want to go ahead himself. This happens in every life and if these expectations are not fulfilled we become sad. Most of the time reason for the sorrow is only expectations to others.
Thus sorrow from others is the biggest lie which each person says himself. He only runs from his responsibilities toward himself. Suppose old parents say that my child hadn’t taken me to a doctor when I am ill it is a lie, instead, he should think I hadn’t gone to the doctor myself. So the blame to the others is a weak route while taking own responsibility on himself is the route of happiness.
Thus sometimes we don’t own ourselves and leave ourselves to others hand. That spoils our life and our life’s happiness. The different path is that you should take responsibility for each incident of your life besides leaving up to others. And we should try to take correct decisions to oneself and if it becomes wrong we should also accept that. It is our mistake. This should happen for each incident of our life. The whole meaning of that is own ourselves and never leave ourselves to leave in the hand of others. This thought should be developed from our children.
The thought of owning will give a person self-reliance, self-confident, competitive strength to fight, careful behavior, the capacity to fight in struggle time and at last good and happy life. The 90% of sorrow of life will end up. So besides blaming others, we should blame our self for the troubles of our life.
Owning ourselves is the first step of owning our life. It means after owning himself a person should own his family secondly, And thirdly own his society also. Suppose if a problem occurs in our family. It is our responsibility is to resolve it. While never leave on another family member. And this will go like that for our society. Our nation, our world and up to our universe, these family, society, nation, world and universe all makes a person’s life. That concludes one should own his life also. If a person goes like that he will never criticize problems and others, and he will always try to find solutions to his life. These problems will never create sadness, while he will accept all problems and try to resolve it; it will give happiness to him.
Thus the conclusion of this research is that you should own yourself and own your life also. Besides happiness, this owning will put you on the right track of your life and also make you successful in your life. Because the big hurdle of unsuccessful, carelessness will end up.