Why failure occurs
Success is one of the major things which one wants in his life. Most persons in a society run towards their goals and target. But only a few people reach on their mountain. While most of them fall from the goal’s mountain. To get the success it is necessary to understand how and why one person may fail in his targets and goals. It takes him near to reality. So let’s study some reasons to fail.
Too many goals & targets – Every person can get his target or goal if they are very few and achievable. If a person has too many goals and targets in his life he fell down because of the burden of these targets. So make targets very few as possible as in your life. Generally, it should be one, two or three only.
Not measuring unfavorable condition – Generally, when a person makes his goals he only estimates good or favorable conditions. But this is never realistic. To achieve goals one should measure and ready himself towards unfavorable conditions also. He has to develop competitive strength and skill to fight diverse conditions also. Unfavorable condition is the main reason in a person’s life why he fails to achieve success or his goals. When deciding goals, never thought that there will be the only favorable condition, while he should think and make himself ready to convert unfavorable to favorable condition.
Estimation of help – When a person makes his goals, he always thinks that all people near him will help him to get his goals. But in reality 90% of the time these persons never do that, instead, they force him to do work according to them. They distract his mind from his goals through fear, greed and wrong justification. Therefore estimation of peoples help is going wrong. So a person should stand for himself and prepare himself for the upcoming fight.
Discuss goal to others – Normally people think that by discussing. Your goals to others, they will give better advice. But in most of the case, other people never give the right advice at the right time, while they distract your mind from your goals. Generally, they cannot understand you and your goals as you can yourself. Because you live with that goal while it is only a dream story, which is not achievable. Sometime you should not listen to Yourself also.
Therefore use people for your goals without much discussing with them.
Lack of hard work on desire – If a person wants or desires something he can get in his life. It is a universal truth. But when a person makes his goals with less desire he can never reach there. After desire hard work is most important. Achieving a goal is only possible through hard work. There is no short cut to achieve the goal. Most failure persons have the desire but they run from hard work. Therefore they become unsuccessful.
Lack of madness – Until one don’t become mad towards their goals they can’t get success. Sometime you should not listen to yourself also and ignore all kind of frustration. If one run towards in a direction and see only towards goals. He can reach near to his goals. It means until one cannot see like ‘Arjun’ towards his goal, he can never be successful.
Wastage of time – Time is priceless. If you don’t reach the station on time, the train may be gone. Therefore if one waste time then he goes far from his goals.
Continuous changing – If one is not stable on a particular goal. He can be confused. This is the reason why a person’s mind can be diverted and he becomes sometimes goals less also.
So these are some issues, which lead a person towards failure. By changing or understanding these reason a person may go in the right direction towards his goals. By understanding these reasons he turns towards a better path.